In The Sound of Music, Julie Andrews’ character sang a rousing pep-talk to herself in an effort to boost her self-confidence. We can do the same. Taking a cue from the lyrics to “I Have Confidence,” we can follow the character’s example and build our sense of self-worth—proving to ourselves that we are capable of achieving more than we think we can.
“I must dream of the things I am seeking”
How you see yourself goes a long way toward influencing what you become. Imagine the person you want to be—play it over and over in your mind, like a movie. If you have a hard time visualizing, try writing down the qualities you desire. Start each item with “I am…” not “I want to be…” Tell yourself you are, and you will become that.
“And while I show them I’ll show me!”
Action gives birth to confidence. Are you afraid to do something on your goal list? Then do it. The knowledge that you faced your fear will encourage you—and you’ll discover that you can achieve your dreams. That sense of accomplishment will make your confidence soar.
“With each step I am more certain”
The more you realize your progress, the more confident you will feel. Track your progress—have good pictures taken of yourself, and look at them daily. If possible, put examples of your work, thoughts, or projects online, such as in a blog, photo hosting account, or group forum. Seeing your work onscreen and receiving positive feedback from others will do wonders for your sense of self-worth.
When someone gives you encouragement, print it out or write it down, and look at it often. Drive it into your mind that you are good, you are worthy, and you can do whatever you set your mind on.
Think that sounds conceited? It’s not—it’s edification, and it’s essential. You would do it for others—give yourself the same kindness.
“Besides what you see I have confidence in me!”
Look the part. Invest in a good hair cut. Buy clothing, accessories, or cosmetics that make you feel good. Don’t think you can afford it? The truth is, you can’t afford not to spend money on your image. Work it into your budget, if you need to, but do not scrimp in this department.
Spending money on your image is as viable an investment as putting it into office supplies or business cards. If a $40 trip to the stylist makes you feel like a million bucks, that’s a good return on your investment.
“Wake up! It’s healthy!”
A fast way towards feeling confident is to exercise regularly—not only is it good for you, strenuous exercise also causes your body to manufacture endorphins, chemicals which actually produce a pleasurable sense of well-being. According to Wikipedia, they’re released during exercise, excitement—and orgasm. Think that will get you to exercise?
“I have confidence in confidence alone!”
A wise adage urges us to act as if we have already received what we want, even before we receive it. If you act confident, you’ll feel confident.
Stand up straight, put your shoulders back, keep your chin up. That alone gives a sense of stability. Speak firmly. Breathe. Relax. Think of all the steps you have taken to boost your confidence, remember the progress you have already made, and take the next step forward. You can do it.
I have confidence in you.
It’s funny how a simple thing such as a haircut can add tons of confidence to your walk and everyday demeanor.
When you answer the phone, a simple smile can exude tons of positive emotion to the person on the other end.
So when you start to feel soggy, start with your appearance, then look at your inner goals, write them down and ask yourself, “am I accomplishing what I want?” It’s really quite simple. I keep mine in my daily planner
Your pal, @industryminute
That is so great, and true! Thank you for sharing those tips!
Mousewords, you are wonderful, and I “Have Confidence in You!”
I have confidence in myself
I have been having problems with self-confidence lately…too many negative/hyper-critical influences in my life that I, unfortunately, have to continue associating with. I am going to bookmark this post as it helped lift some of that stress from me. Thank you.